Welcome!!! I decided to start a blog about dating for SEVERAL REASONS!!
1. I recently went through a break up and I wanted to get back into the dating scene. During this relationship, I felt like I was the only one in it...I know you've all been there before!! So it was time for me to venture out and meet new people! But I had one question...Where? Where will I meet a guy who at my age, is on the same page as I am? I mean, I'm young, fun, and educated...this was going to be rough.
2. So many of my friends and family members are single and AFRAID TO DATE. They are either too picky, too scared, or have never been on a date in their entire lives. I've been on many many dates, and had a lot of fun. I've done some things that I would never have been able to do if I was not dating. But this was not enough to convince my friends to start dating. Many of my friends have had terrible experiences dating when they met guys online or at a club...so again brings up the question...Where? Where can a good girl meet a good guy?
3. I wanted to have a place where I can talk about my dating experiences in hopes to come up with a list of places where 'boy meets girl'.
I first started with asking friends where they typically go to meet girls or guys...and the one guy that responded..said the CLUB? ...We will leave that for another day !
You bring up excellent points Serena. It is very hard to meet someone whom you think is on the same level emotionally, scholarly,and financially. I think the best way to meet your "match" is when you least expect to. I know this from experience ;)
ReplyDeleteI personaly think that dating (going on dates) is fun and an excellent way to see the different types of man out there. I do agree with meeting men in the club is very tacky. But a nice twist to that is going to fund-raiser/Gala events. I have been to many and have met such kind, honest, educated, handsome and very personable men of all ages, races & background.
I sooo appreciate your suggestion Daze! Thank you and I will definitely be looking out for those events! If you hear of any please feel free to share them on my page! Thanks! I totally agree that you meet your match when you don't expect it...but you can't wait at home! You have to get out there and be confident! Im not saying throw yourself at anyone or except anything...but don't be afraid to date and have fun!
ReplyDeleteSerena, I agree with both you and Daze. It will happen when you least expect it and it will not happen at home. You do have to get out there and experience the dating scene. You will not only learn more about yourself but by dating different men, you will also realize the type of man you want to me with. No one is perfect, but there is someone perfect for you! Go get em girl!! I look forward to reading more! And let me know where to find those good men :)
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